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I'm not sure if this has been addressed in here before, but I was thinking about getting a tattoo around my finger instead of a ring when I get married. I know it's a lot harder to get rid of in terms of divorce...but it'd be pretty cool. ----- Alcohol and calculus don't mix. Never drink and derive. | |||||
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Hugh Jackman did this in The Fountain. It looked neat. ----- Coeur cassé | |||||
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My boyfriend said the same. -----  | |||||
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If you're not completely confident that you want to be with that person for the rest of your life, so much that you wouldn't even think about regretting the tattoo - Don't get married. And I think it's a beautiful thing to do, if I ever get married, I'm pretty sure that's what I'd do. | |||||
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I think it would be dope. Even if the marriage failed, it would be a marking of an important period in your life. ----- All I've found is it gets colder, further north ya go/it's pissin' rain and snow/God, it's the world I don't wanna know. | |||||
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On October 30, 2009, 3:04AM, ImBeautiful said: Well, I'd want a ring. But maybe a tattoo some place else. Not on my finger. Because if you somehow score some job that makes you take off your rings for the time (like maybe a doctor or something? I assume they take theirs off because they have gloves & wash up) you probably wouldn't be able to have a tattoo... Just thinking ahead. Given the connection this thread has to the Fountain and my assumption that you've never watched it your post is extremely ironic. ----- All I've found is it gets colder, further north ya go/it's pissin' rain and snow/God, it's the world I don't wanna know. | |||||
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Main character is a doctor, and he has to take his ring off at one point and loses it. ----- All I've found is it gets colder, further north ya go/it's pissin' rain and snow/God, it's the world I don't wanna know. | |||||
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^Yeah, given how bad the economy is right now, it wouldn't be too smart to have any very visible tattoos that could effect your work. Unless you work somewhere that isn't so tight laced, of course, like a therapist, mechanic, etc. ----- My beauty blog | |||||
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I've never heard of a place that required a person to take off their wedding ring. It's unheard of in our society. If the tattooed ring is simple and not extremely adorned, I don't see the difference between that and an actual ring. Just get a tattoo of a plain gold ring. ----- Nice guys never finish anything; they are too busy worrying about who they will offend. | |||||
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My ex fiance got my name tattooed around his ring finger without me knowing. We broke up 3 weeks later, he got married and divorced to one of my friends. After the divorce she started talking to me again. She said that he was so pissed at himself for ever getting my name tattooed on him. Now he has a big black skull tattooed on his finger and he can still see my name. She said it was weird for her to see my name on his finger. Even if it hadn't been my name and it had just been a tattooed ring, it would still be weird. So, if you plan on doing and the marriage doesn't work out, think about how it's going to affect future relationships. ----- You will fly and you will crawl; God knows even angels fall. | |||||
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^Its kind of sad and negative to think about all that, but she's right. A marriage is never 100%... Even if you put your all into it, will the other person? | |||||
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Getting someone's name tattoed on you is always a bad bad idea. ----- you're the four leaf clover that guides me through | |||||
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On November 3, 2009, 5:22PM, twisted_illusions said: Getting someone's name tattoed on you is always a bad bad idea. I couldnt agree more, but the concept is awesome. ----- But if autumn comes...And your love for me... Has withered like the leaves that fall from every tree... Will you lie to me...So I can still believe....That you still love me? | |||||
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A tattoo ring isn't that bad. My Grandma can't wear her ring anymore because it's too tight. So in that sense I could see the purpose. ----- Coeur cassé | |||||
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Main topic is about a ring though, not a name. I'd do it. I really would, and if the marraige failed, it would remind me of the GOOD times not the NEGATIVE of the marriage. But if you're sure you're with your partner for life, do it. Marriage is for life (supposedly) and so is a tattoo, perfect combination. And hey, it's cheaper too  ----- | |||||
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I think it would remind me of the negative as well though. Especially if it ended on a bad note. A divorce typically doesn't leave you with the "well we had a good run" attitude. I dunno. Just doesn't seem worth it in the end. On the other hand, if I EVER did it, I wouldn't get the tattoo "when" I got married, it would be yearrrrrs and yearrrrrs later. ----- You will fly and you will crawl; God knows even angels fall. [This post was last updated on November 10, 2009, 4:02PM by Man.In.The.Boat.] | |||||
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^So far I totally agree with Man.In.The.Boat. ----- My beauty blog | |||||
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On November 3, 2009, 4:22PM, twisted_illusions said: Getting someone's name tattoed on you is always a bad bad idea. I agree with this. I'd never get someone's name tattooed on me. I'd never get a band's name tattooed on me, either. I have no intention of ever filing for divorce once I'm married. I won't marry someone willy-nilly. I'll have to have been with them for a long time. I like to think it's worth it, but I understand why some people don't think it's a good idea. I'm not fully sure about doing it myself, but it's not a terrible idea just to think over a bit. I'll probably never get married, anyway. ----- The truth is a poor excuse for lack of imagination. | |||||
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My boyfriend has his daughter's name on his chest. I like it  She will always be his daughter no matter what ----- | |||||
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I dunno, i think its really romantic but look at people such as Ville Valo from the band H.I.M, he got a J on his ring finger for his fiancé but the broke up and he had to live with it for ages, although you could get it removed i suppose. I think i would like to get it done but only when i meet 'the one' as it were. And in England theres a law, where you don't have to remove your wedding ring even in hospital. And anyways why would were you work matter if you have a tattoo instead of a ring, thats like discrimination. ----- Sunny. |
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